There has be in a long standing heritage in our feminine DNA that has had countless women sell out, diminish their own power and acquiesce to assuming roles that are inauthentic.
The most significant form of ‘energetic prostitution’ is in the dynamic that is prevalent with women who are in relationship with men because of money.
I am reflecting on my mother, who negated her own value and worth when she recognized the core mis-alignment in her relationship with my father but didn’t have the courage or confidence to honor her truth and intuition. She choose instead to stay in the relationship even though it wasn’t fulfilling because of a monetary promise my dad made, to take care of her financially.
I believe her Spirit died on that day, when she choose to negate her own path and inspirations and stay in a compromising relationship, for what was inevitably a fleeting sense of security and fulfillment.
Ultimately, she did take her own life in company with my father, because my father convinced her it was the only solution to their money issues.
In recognition of International Women’s Day, I would like to extend deep appreciation for the women who are brave enough to be sovereign, and set a new paradigm and energetic signature for relationship dynamic. Appreciating men, but not needing them and above all, being true to yourself and loving yourself purely, sanely, deeply.
JUDGEMENT has many disguises. One of the most powerful reminders of this was during my recent trip to Morgan Stanley in New York.
I have been told by many what a “tough audience” the financial arena and corporate arena are, and how “they just don’t get it”. This ends up being another example of polarity thinking. A continuation of the US & THEM Syndrome, that continues to perpetuate pain and drama on our planet. I have to admit, I have bought into this notion on a few occasions, especially when I falsely interpret a look on someone’s face when I am presenting.
Right before I gave my talk at Morgan Stanley, I had a man in a suit approach me in the hall and say, that is a lovely “spiritual outfit” you have on. I was a little taken aback (not offended, just thought the comment was “odd”), given that I had “my corporate look” on – black pencil skirt with a silk blouse. After looking at him in his suit, I responded with – “what kind of outfit do you have on?” He replied, one that I wear to make money and support my family. I replied – “An Honorable Outfit”.
After my talk I had a few F.A.’s approach me for private consultations and the “spiritual outfit” man was one of them. After speaking to a few people in the office, I was forewarned that he was a real handful, would talk my head off and essentially was a pain in the ass. I found myself dreading the consultation in his office, for fear that I would be trapped in his office, and in a conversation that felt equally confining.
After being coaxed by the Senior Advisor to just spend a few minutes with him, I entered into one of the most profound classrooms of my life.
No sooner had we shut the door than he shared, with tears streaming down his face- “You have touched by soul more deeply than anyone I have ever met. Your talk took my breath away.”
I was in shock, after expecting to have another version of a shallow conversation about my Spiritual Outfit. Within minutes he was sharing with me that he has Stage 4 Brain Cancer (which only his senior advisor was aware of) and that he was ready to live his life to the fullest and no longer wanted to be a Money Drone. Before I left, he and I were in a full embrace, him weeping and me holding him – one Spiritual Outfit and a Suit.
I now have the humbling privilege of working with this amazing man, to reclaim his life and shift his emotional cancer to remission in his body.
Judgement comes in many disguises…
The experience we all desire, which unifies us all, is that we all want to feel love and be loved. When we realize this, we can remember there are many outfits that are worn in our daily lives, but all of them are just clothing OUR HEARTS.
Now is the time for greater Self Mastery.
Life is dishing up many contrasting experiences for you, for the purpose of informing your newfound “yes”. Unfortunately, most people are unaware of how to work with this beneficial server and It’s intent in promoting your greatest fulfillment. After their contrasting experience, most will unconsciously continue to speak about what they didn’t like, and focus on what went “wrong”, which will create more of the same in a different package, courtesy of the magnetic Universe in which we live.
Through this newfound awareness, you have the ability to acknowledge aspects of your personal experience that are no longer serving you. Your awareness is encouraged through an incredible mechanism called “contrast” which is intended to support your clarity, authentic desires and evolution.
After experiencing contrast in your life, you can use this gift by placing your attention on your newfound clarity – and focus more often than not, on what it is you ARE wanting moving forward. This will guarantee more of these experiences to come your way.
From this state of awareness, you can begin to deliberately decide to face ONLY the aspects of your reality that DO feel good, are life affirming and positive to you and no longer face aspects that are frustrating and unenjoyable to you.
This is the Ultimate form of denial, for in this Vibrational Universe, what you place your attention on will continue to show up in your reality. Facing love and facing appreciation, will surely promote more of the same.
It is time for many to commit suicide, but we must leave our bodies out of it.
When our luxuries, pursuit of money and need for external validation began to imprison us, and we become confined in our pursuit of a false sense of ‘security’, we must take an honest look at the fundamental insanity of this cultural inheritance. An energetic hand-me-down that keeps us perpetually in pursuit of FILLfullment and not FULfillment.
This is a profound wake up call for us to relinquish the false identities and walls we have built that distract us from witnessing our innate worth and value, and the essence of what we authentically define as successful. A path that ironically leads to a state of anything but a feeling of freedom. Our opportunity now is to cultivate an inner state of Self assured knowing that is not contingent on external factors.
If we are brave enough to shed the illusory and evasive sense of worth and safety that we have falsely assigned to our accolades and net worth, we can begin to focus on the essence of our beings and that which is eternal. and can allow for our true identities and Self worth to be known, felt and witnessed.
As we relinquish our false identity, and allow for our true identities to be known and witnessed, our essential Self worth will reign supreme ~ a rain maker of love, joy and authentic expression to be shared for the benefit of all.
Financial systems are unstable, suicide is rampant, and disease is escalating. Millions of people have lost their way. We have To-Do Lists that extend beyond our own lifespan and heart disease is at an all time high – the correlation of which is undeniable.
The majority of people are in pursuit of acquiring a net worth at the expense of their own well being and have falsely defined and assigned their Self worth, happiness, value and sense of security to money. They’re more focused on their bank balance than their own sense of balance.
We have a culture that is materially rich but emotionally broke – Fill-fullment as opposed to Fulfillment. Hoping that the “filling” of external things will somehow miraculously bring about a sense of fulfillment. We have the opportunity at this potent time in our human evolution, to dispel these illusions once and for all.
One of the most blatant versions of this cultural insanity, is in the pursuit of “Financial Freedom”. As we start to look deeper, we see that life speaks to us in metaphors. We can look at the CHASE bank cards and see that they read- ‘CHASE FREEDOM’, which is blatantly indicative of our times, with so many people chasing freedom – always elusive. (**Include the Chase Bank card and Priceless Freedom card graphics here**)Financial freedom is an oxy-moron for we can never be free in the seeking of something outside of ourselves for that freedom. We are creating from the inside out. Therefore, freedom, security, flow and fulfillment are all an inside job.
The vast irritation we are experiencing through pain and drama, is providing us with a valuable opportunity to course correct. It is within this experience of contrast – The Ultimate Stimulus package – that we have experiences that are painful, for the purpose of revealing what we prefer.
These experiences of pain and drama are cleverly disguised gifts of greater awareness, conscious choice and alignment (provided we choose to unwrap them) and are the very impetus for our evolution into this next book of human experience.
These experiences are gifts and “sponsors” for us to realize our truest desires. They are ambassadors for us to harness a newfound clarity and move in a heart-core conscious direction to create a thriving experience, personally and collectively.
When we get to the heart of the matter, we realize at the core of our being, we are desperately yearning to live the lives we were born for. How we currently exist in the world is blatantly not working. We have been hostage to the psychological inheritances and energetic hand-me-down’s of a fear based culture, community and media for far too long. We have succumbed to the collective hallucination that our source of freedom, happiness, security, worth and value, resides in something external – in our net worth, possessions, status, accolades, title and relationships.
We are each being given a profound opportunity to arise from our unconscious slumber and step into our True power and to claim a life that is based in true freedom, flow and fulfillment -to be “Fulfillionaires” and live lives that are rich in all ways – both experientially and materially. A life of TRUE WEALTH.
This is the grand awakening of acknowledging that Source ~the life giving energy that is breathing us, beating our hearts and life-ing us ~ is flowing through us…as us. We are it! We are being given a potent chance now to intimately know and trust this internal and eternal power, and its unwavering and beneficial effect in our lives.
Our experience here on Earth is grounded in a natural principle and Law, which I refer to as the Law of Response that dictates that our reality is but a vibrational reflection of our own perception. In this vibrational Universe, we attract based on how we feel. There is a gravitational pull to our consciousness that aligns for us people, circumstances, events and situations, all of which are validating our inner dialogue.
As we each become more and more attuned to this intimate fact, we can begin to claim our individual power and use of our greatest commodity – our attention- to create a life that is truly valuable to us and to others. This is the essence of Free Will or often times Free Won’t.
The time has come for us to no longer seek peace and happiness outside of ourselves, for the “seeking” outside of ourselves implies that we feel a lack and incompleteness within ourselves, which will continue to perpetuate pain and drama in our lives. It is time to become the final healer of our inner world and therefore our outer world, to dispel the greatest illusion of all time ~our powerlessness to create our lives in the way that we choose and our separateness from Source~the Ultimate hallucination.
As we step into this Era of personal empowerment we begin to recognize that our power resides in our attention and how we choose to perceive.
As we begin to recognize more fully the unique genius within each of us and have reverence for the Creative Force that IS expressing thru US, we step into greater awareness and Self-mastery. It is from this place of sovereignty, that we are connected to our true essence, which creates the shift that allows us to mid-wife the birth of our New Reality.
In all great ages of times past, accounts of prolific heroes are found. Tales are told of incredibly courageous human beings, who challenged the powers to be and catalyzed a people to great change for the next chapter of human evolution.
This time is no different, but with an important and life changing distinction. We are no longer writing chapters, but rather a new book. The days of the hero have come and gone. You must now look within to find the great savior of humanity. You are the one you have been waiting for and must truly be the change you wish to see in your world.
The time has come for each of us to claim our Self worth and innate value and our experience of Authentic Abundance.
Change occurs at the speed of thought and we must remember that the only way to predict our future is to create it.
Everything you DO will bear the mark of the consciousness in which you do it. NO amount of action can replace misaligned consciousness. You can never create the results that are intrinsically valuable to you (love, joy, ease and abundance) if the majority of your actions are motivated by fear. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Even though the aspect of repeated action to create a different result is in and of itself “insane”, so is the notion that DOING something different will create a different outcome.
Your actions are guided by your emotions, which are informed by your thoughts. In order to move in the direction of Sanity, and create sustainable desired results, you must begin to change the way you are thinking and BEING. When you focus on the aspects of your BEING that you are grateful for and begin to celebrate and appreciate them, this will begin to foster feelings that are based in appreciation. This renewed focus will inevitably replace your sense of struggle and fear based actions with those of inspiration.
When you realize that there is nothing more valuable to you than how you feel, and you begin to align with your essential standards. This allows you shift your creative process from one of efforting to an experience of allowing, inspired action and authentic success.
In the moment that you are clear about what you are wanting, the Universe conspires to deliver to you all cooperative relationships for your fulfillment.. Your focus should be exclusively on what you are wanting and why you are wanting it. The Infinite Intelligence that is choreographing the details of your body mechanics and the spinning of the Earth on it’s axis and Its perfect proximity to a life giving Sun, will handle the details of the delivery – the who, what, where and how.
With every thing being energy, you must also partner with this life-giving energy by being in a state of alignment. You come into alignment by focusing on what you are wanting and trusting that the Intelligence that is breathing you, is conspiring for your well being and has the capacity and ability to handle the details. Most people start dabbling in the details and become overwhelmed, which is not an energetic match to the fulfillment of their desires. You must stick to the what and why, and begin to notice what is working and the ways in which your hearts desires are already being met.
These ingredients of your alignment and Divine Intelligence is a winning recipe for your fulfillment in every way, for not only are your desires realized, you get to enjoy the creative process by being in a state of ease, grace and trust. ♥
What you focus on expands in your life. Having your attention on what IS working in your life and focusing on gratitude will change your life. Our thoughts and perceptions create our reality.
My life was a nightmare.
I had just lost both of my parents to suicide together over money.
Within 6 months, I lost almost all of the money I had inherited from their estate in the stock market, during the tech collapse.
The remaining money I had, I invested with a private company that had created a Satellite Solar Power technology, whose intention was to shed light (pun intended) on our planets energy crisis.
After a long stint in the Stock Market and investing in mindless, heartless companies for the sake of profit at any expense. I was elated that I was choosing to invest in something that I believed in.
We were set to go public any day.
And then a week passed…and then another week…
And then a month…
I found myself sitting around the house, near the phone almost every day, in hopes that I would receive the call that would inform me that the company had gone public and I had made my millions.
I sat and waited. And then waited some more.
A month passed and then another month…and then another.
The horror of 9/11 happened.
Shortly after, my home was in foreclosure, and I soon found myself in an abusive relationship.
I had lost everything at this point, and became severely depressed. I decided I was going to kill myself.
And then, I had a dream….
In my dream, I was running down a dark alley. I remember feeling that I was going the wrong direction, so I turned and starting heading in a different direction. No sooner had I had turned to go in this new direction than I saw out of the corner of my eye a homeless person and a dog tied up to the rear bumper of a car. I sensed that the driver had NO IDEA that they were tied up to the car. I saw the brake lights go on as he started the ignition. I panicked! I HAD to get his attention before he backed up!!!
All of a sudden a red delicious apple appeared in my right hand and I threw it as hard as I could to get his attention! As soon as I released the apple, the car morphed into an ambulance and backed up and ran over the dog!!!!!!!!!!!!
I GASPED and shot straight up in bed, literally GASPING. Being an AVID dog lover, I was mortified about what I had just seen.
Moments later I realized it was “just” a dream, but there was something about it that was haunting to me. I couldn’t go back to sleep. I knew on every level of my being that “something” was getting my attention.
The next day, journal in hand, I went for a walk, determined to get to the bottom of it. I remember asking for clarity and insight. What was the meaning? It felt very profound. But absolutely nothing came to me, despite my best efforts.
And then 2 days later, I received the most AMAZING download. The entire script line poured through me!
Here’s what I received.
Running down a dark alley symbolized being in a situation I didn’t trust.
Turning around and going the other direction represented a new direction in my life.
Cars symbolize our emotional body and I was not in the driver’s seat of mine.
The Homeless person and Dog were tied up to the rear bumper of the car.
The Homeless person represented my greatest fear of being homeless, with my home in foreclosure.
Dogs represents loyalty, in this case I was tied up and loyal to someone/something else.
The red delicious apple – signified the Original Sin, which to me represents the illusion of our disconnection, when we “bit” into the illusion of our powerlessness, our disconnection to Source itself, and our inability to create our lives exactly how we want them to be.
The car morphing into an ambulance and running over the dog – the ambulance represented being rescued.
In essence the message I received so LOUD and CLEAR, is I had tied myself up to the idea of being rescued by something or someone else outside of myself and it was KILLING ME!!
All of this was orchestrated and scripted in the perfect Dream Time story to get my attention!!!
Shortly after my dream, I choose to surrender and let go.
I opened up to my best friend, and shared with her that I had been considering suicide. Choosing to be transparent with her was one of the most profound gifts of my life. There were no words shared, she just saw the truth of who I was. This exchange of being witnessed so truthfully, created a profound shift for me and a pinprick of hope in my heart.
My life begin to open up in amazing ways. Sponsors and ambassadors of well being began to stream into my life. I started on a path of Self discovery and soon realized that my parents suicide was ultimately a gift in disguise for not only my life but for the millions of people everyday that are committing emotional and literal suicide every day over money!
I have since authored a book on Priceless Principles and created a Coaching & Consulting organization where I delight in my global mission of restoring a deep sense of our infinite value and our Self worth and reminding us of our connection to the ultimate resource of Source, and the power that resides within each and every one of us.
I know for sure that the loving intent of Source will find a way to get our hearts attention and communicate with us in a myriad of ways (in our awake dream and our asleep dream), in order to course correct and align us with our most fulfilling life.
I am so grateful that I was listening, and that my nightmare has since shifted to living my dream.