{"id":3810,"date":"2019-02-27T11:41:49","date_gmt":"2019-02-27T11:41:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/?p=3810"},"modified":"2022-05-14T06:17:04","modified_gmt":"2022-05-14T06:17:04","slug":"the-cost-of-rescuing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/the-cost-of-rescuing\/","title":{"rendered":"The Cost of Rescuing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"540\" height=\"960\" src=\"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Cost-of-Rescuing.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3846\" srcset=\"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Cost-of-Rescuing.jpg 540w, https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Cost-of-Rescuing-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Cost-of-Rescuing-82x146.jpg 82w, https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Cost-of-Rescuing-28x50.jpg 28w, https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Cost-of-Rescuing-42x75.jpg 42w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Ever since I can remember as a little girl I was exerting myself to relieve my parents suffering, and giving to others at my own emotional expense.<\/p>\n<p>This began the unconscious patterning of having to do something to feel loved, and thinking I needed to save people from their suffering.<\/p>\n<div class=\"m_5588227907138457032gmail-text_exposed_show\">\n<p>Recently I have remembered on a core level, that everyone is exactly where they need to be in their own process!<\/p>\n<p>It is not my place- despite what I thought were the best intentions, to interfere with God(desses) plan.<\/p>\n<p>Why would I ever want to rob someone of their opportunity to experience suffering, for the Ultimate purpose of remembering the Source of their true power and identity?<\/p>\n<p>Suffering can be a Divine Catalyst, if we so choose, to Free us from the grand illusion that our well being resides in the external.<\/p>\n<p>We each have Free Will or Free Won\u2019t, to choose to step up and into our true power, however this is an individual choice, with a specific timeline.<\/p>\n<p>With my new found awareness of not being responsible for anyone else\u2019s well being or choices, I no longer suffer from the attachment of them \u201cgetting it\u201d!&nbsp;<span class=\"m_5588227907138457032gmail-_5mfr\"><span class=\"m_5588227907138457032gmail-_6qdm\">?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Hallelujah! We are all exactly where we need to be in our process. Live and let live. Live and let suffer.<\/p>\n<p>Now I can simply focus on my journey and my joy and be an energetic example for others, if they so choose.<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\tEver since I can remember as a little girl I was exerting myself to relieve my parents suffering, and giving to others at my own emotional expense.\t\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3846,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3810"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3810"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3810\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4272,"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3810\/revisions\/4272"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3846"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3810"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3810"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laurafredrickson.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3810"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}